Updates. They’re all around us. On Facebook, on Twitter. On your phone when that annoying piece of crap app suddenly reminds you that it wont work without getting the update.

Well, it’s all well and good except when you dont receive those updates from people you considered important.
I have a couple friends who are in Delhi right now. I had a friend who was in India a couple weeks ago.
All this, but I’ve yet to receive any updates from them. Not a “Hey I’m in your town” or a “I’m in Delhi, we should meet up!”.
No none of that at all. And these are people I considered friends.
It feels unfortunate that i receive so many updates from all around. But for the ones I considered important. Ah but unlike that aforementioned piece of crap app, I dont need that update to continue my current state of life.
Because in this case, while an update would be nice, it just simply isnt necessary. Because someone somewhere decided it isnt.
At that point, when you realize that. That is an unfortunate reality. Maybe you need to look at how you classify those friends. Maybe they were unnecessary updates all along.